Parents & Teachers #sol16

slice of lifeThis afternoon we held Parent-Teacher Conferences at my school. I really enjoy meeting parents. More often than not, I learn interesting facts about my students’ lives outside of my classroom: Will won a poetry prize in fifth grade, Mara got into her first choice college, Allie’s parents are separated.

Some parents who came in today heard nothing but glowing feedback from me. Others helped me brainstorm ways to reach their children, who are often struggling to complete their work. Each ten minute conference was full to the brim, bubbling into the next allotted slot on the schedule. Like everything else in teaching, there is never enough time.

In one conference, however, my story of all the greatness which Matt contributes to Creative Writing ended before the conference time was up. As he put on his coat, the father asked, “So, do you have any kids?”

“Yes!” I said, “he’s almost two.”

Matt’s dad lit up. We chatted for the remaining couple of minutes about parenting, about how quickly time flies, about how he could remember when Matt was that age and how he can’t believing he’s graduating high school in a couple of months…

Tonight, as K threw his plate and utensils and cup on the floor for the fifth time in a row, as he grabbed J’s glass of wine from the table and spilled it all over my iPhone, as he hit the dogs with his toy hammer and laughed, I thought to myself, This goes so quickly. This too shall pass. We are hurtling toward Two, Three, and all the toddler years to follow. The struggles of today will morph into some new, yet unseen phase, and I will simultaneously wish for it to end soon and lament that time is passing too quickly. I will blink, and then K will be in school, and I will be on the other side of the desk, knowing that what the teacher says and what the parent says in the conference each illuminate part of the whole which is a child.

Halfway through dinner, after I leaned down and picked up his cup once again, K reached over and wrapped his little arms around my left arm. He put his cheek on my shoulder and sighed, “Awwww.” This goes so quickly. This too shall pass.


5 thoughts on “Parents & Teachers #sol16

  1. Enjoy every moment! Thank you for sharing your reflective piece that eloquently captures your day, K’s enthusiasm and love, and your amazing patience.


  2. When children are young we often look at milestones. At times we wish they were more independent, that we had more time for sleep. Those moments pass quickly and we move on to the next set of moments. All too soon they are grown and we look back smiling. Hold tight to your little one, he’ll be grown before you know it.


  3. those sweet moments–never announcing they are the last of their kind before little ones are moving up to a new stage–are so precious. having 7 years between my girls has given me a gift of being more cognizant of this in my little, so I pull her a bit closer at every opportunity, & I laugh more easily at those frustrating moments knowing time does indeed slip away. enjoy!


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s